My XH has said some very interesting things to me. He told me "everytime you cry and tell me all the things I have done and are doing... it pushes me closer to OW and further from you". He told me "I need time to process all this, please give me the time I need, I don't know if I made the right decision or not, I don't know what is going on with me". He also said a few times "if the divorce doesn't work out we can get back together"
Take this to heart A! He speaks the truth, in a warped way. Part of him knows and is aware of the confusion in his mind.Hes telling you the truth you WILL push him to OW
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Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
