My WAW gets her college grants, etc, very soon, and when she first walked out she said she may have to rent another place for a while. This has only been brought up once in the first 2 weeks of the separation and has never featured in any conversation again. Once she gets this money I can't get it out of my head that she may do just that.
My question is do I raise my fears to her, or wait and see what happens?
What would I gain?
If she was to rent somewhere else I would then have to follow the forceful stratagem. The next words from my lips would be the 'I will not live in an open M. I will not share you in any way.If you want to be with me, you have to cut off all contact with him AND agree to a transparency plan. If not, then go and be with him and I will file for divorce.'
Or am I just worrying over something that has / and may not happen?
DAMN! I know I should be focusing upon myself, but this is difficult.
Regards, Gyn.
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.
