Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I am interviewing MC's now. I know this is not going to be a "silver bullet" for our M. However, I want to give us the best chance of succeeding, and that starts with selecting the right MC.


Absolutely!!!

My W and I went to a MC shortly after the separation.

Counselor: “W, how do you feel about the marriage?”

W: “I’m done”

Counselor: “Well, Norm, W seems to be done. I think we should move on to the next step.”

Whaaaaat???? It was a freakin’ disaster!!

From your perspective, the purpose of counseling is to HEAL THE REALATIONSHIP.

Shop counselors from that perspective.


H: 50
W: 48
Married 20 years
Bomb and separation: 9/12/09
A discovered 12/02/09
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