I am interviewing MC's now. I know this is not going to be a "silver bullet" for our M. However, I want to give us the best chance of succeeding, and that starts with selecting the right MC.
Absolutely!!!
My W and I went to a MC shortly after the separation.
Counselor: “W, how do you feel about the marriage?”
W: “I’m done”
Counselor: “Well, Norm, W seems to be done. I think we should move on to the next step.”
Whaaaaat???? It was a freakin’ disaster!!
From your perspective, the purpose of counseling is to HEAL THE REALATIONSHIP.
Shop counselors from that perspective.
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec