VD, I actually don't really care for beer. But dually noted. I think I feel kind of funny calling a sponsor especially if I am with someone.

I talked to W tonight. D11 was sick and stayed home today. I also had my bank card lost/stolen, not sure which. I had to deal with that tonight. Someone tried to make withdrawals but luckily the system declined the transactions and the bank called me and issued me a new card.

Here is the conversation with W. Interesting response when I throw in the words "custody arrangements".

K4D: How is D11 doing
W: she's ok
K4D: Ok good
K4D: Can you make D7 a car rider tomorrow
W: ummm sure
W: you're picking her up at 3:00?
K4D: Ya. We are closed tomorrow apparently
W: oh cool
W: ok
K4D: Not cool. Don't get paid
W: send R a text tomorrow letting her know they dont need to pick up D11 too
K4D: Someone stole my bank card also
W: yeah well, 1 day is better than the 1 week i'm told i'm expected to take off after christmas
W: oh no!
K4D: So had to deal with that
W: how did that happen?
W: sorry to hear that
K4D: Guess it fell out of my pocket somewhere
K4D: Someone tried to make large withdrawals
K4D: The bank called me. They are issuing a new card to me
W: oh crap. how much money did you lose?
W: oh good
K4D: 5 to 7 business days
W: that's a long time
K4D: Ya
W: did they get a lot of money?
K4D: No
K4D: The transactions were declined
W: oh good
K4D: I just don't have real access to my account right now
K4D: So I am having to use a credit card for gas and food stuff
W: means you have to carry cash, i guess?
K4D: Ya
W: ok
K4D: The kids do have school tomorrow right?
W: yes
W: unfortunately. i know it would be nice for them to have the day with you
K4D: What time does D11 get out?
W: 4:00
W: is when you can expect her to get out
W: at best
K4D: That stinks. Go ahead and just leave D7 in the bell then
W: oh ok
K4D: Don't want to make 2 trips
W: alright
W: you could take her to mcd's.
W: or the park
K4D: Low on money right now
K4D: Trying to save
W: ahhh. yeah. know that feeling. i'm going to get a crappy paycheck tomorrow. this is going to be a crappy 2 weeks
K4D: Ya. I guess I could take her to a park
W: not out tonight?
K4D: Was going to help some people move a couch and bed and I just got told they are gonna do it tomorrow
W: oh
K4D: So nothing else was planned tonight
W: so can you pull up a calendar and we can have a quick polite convo about changing the exchange days and the holiday schedule
W: or would you prefer i send it to you in email?
K4D: I would prefer any kind of custody arrangements in email
W: custody arrangements? seriously?
W: ok
W: so that's why you cancelled. i see
K4D: No. That is not why I canceled
K4D: But after thinking about it, I think it to be best that way
K4D: Sunday night I had a great evening
W: well since we aren't talking about the kids anymore. have a good night.
K4D: Ok
K4D: Good night

I guess she really was confused about Sunday night.

Kevin

Last edited by K4D; 11/11/09 03:52 AM.

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...