VD, I actually don't really care for beer. But dually noted. I think I feel kind of funny calling a sponsor especially if I am with someone.
I talked to W tonight. D11 was sick and stayed home today. I also had my bank card lost/stolen, not sure which. I had to deal with that tonight. Someone tried to make withdrawals but luckily the system declined the transactions and the bank called me and issued me a new card.
Here is the conversation with W. Interesting response when I throw in the words "custody arrangements".
K4D: How is D11 doing W: she's ok K4D: Ok good K4D: Can you make D7 a car rider tomorrow W: ummm sure W: you're picking her up at 3:00? K4D: Ya. We are closed tomorrow apparently W: oh cool W: ok K4D: Not cool. Don't get paid W: send R a text tomorrow letting her know they dont need to pick up D11 too K4D: Someone stole my bank card also W: yeah well, 1 day is better than the 1 week i'm told i'm expected to take off after christmas W: oh no! K4D: So had to deal with that W: how did that happen? W: sorry to hear that K4D: Guess it fell out of my pocket somewhere K4D: Someone tried to make large withdrawals K4D: The bank called me. They are issuing a new card to me W: oh crap. how much money did you lose? W: oh good K4D: 5 to 7 business days W: that's a long time K4D: Ya W: did they get a lot of money? K4D: No K4D: The transactions were declined W: oh good K4D: I just don't have real access to my account right now K4D: So I am having to use a credit card for gas and food stuff W: means you have to carry cash, i guess? K4D: Ya W: ok K4D: The kids do have school tomorrow right? W: yes W: unfortunately. i know it would be nice for them to have the day with you K4D: What time does D11 get out? W: 4:00 W: is when you can expect her to get out W: at best K4D: That stinks. Go ahead and just leave D7 in the bell then W: oh ok K4D: Don't want to make 2 trips W: alright W: you could take her to mcd's. W: or the park K4D: Low on money right now K4D: Trying to save W: ahhh. yeah. know that feeling. i'm going to get a crappy paycheck tomorrow. this is going to be a crappy 2 weeks K4D: Ya. I guess I could take her to a park W: not out tonight? K4D: Was going to help some people move a couch and bed and I just got told they are gonna do it tomorrow W: oh K4D: So nothing else was planned tonight W: so can you pull up a calendar and we can have a quick polite convo about changing the exchange days and the holiday schedule W: or would you prefer i send it to you in email? K4D: I would prefer any kind of custody arrangements in email W: custody arrangements? seriously? W: ok W: so that's why you cancelled. i see K4D: No. That is not why I canceled K4D: But after thinking about it, I think it to be best that way K4D: Sunday night I had a great evening W: well since we aren't talking about the kids anymore. have a good night. K4D: Ok K4D: Good night
I guess she really was confused about Sunday night.
Kevin
Last edited by K4D; 11/11/0903:52 AM.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...