All in all, I feel better. While I do feel she was holding some of their conversation topics back from me, I cannot control what they talk about or do. I can only control myself and right now I am going to let this one go. I have set my boundaries for the situation but I cannot enforce them with her. I will watch everything I say and do around her now so that I can limit the information she can carry back to him.
Very good. You are 100% correct to be focusing only on things that you can control. Focus on you.
I think this will be my new mantra.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month
I think this will be my new mantra.
