Originally Posted By: praying_in_GA
All in all, I feel better. While I do feel she was holding some of their conversation topics back from me, I cannot control what they talk about or do. I can only control myself and right now I am going to let this one go. I have set my boundaries for the situation but I cannot enforce them with her. I will watch everything I say and do around her now so that I can limit the information she can carry back to him.



Very good. You are 100% correct to be focusing only on things that you can control. Focus on you.


Me & H: 33 yrs
S: 4 & 6
D: 2
M: 9 yrs
ILYBNILWY: 8/09
SEPARATED: 9/09
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