I hear ya bro. The first time we physically moved beyond platonic (we had a lot of "flirty" text/emails the days leading up to that) aside from a physical reaction, I had no emotional connection. It was very bizzare. I had only known her for a week but thought there would be some type of emotional response in me
I do believe you're right, that we put so much stuff into our WAW there may not be any reserves left. Maybe this is why everyone says to go slow and wait till you're ready.
Best of luck to you bro, I'm rooting for you man
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13