Here's the update on tonight's drama, or lack thereof.
I left from home at 8pm, called D17 on her cell. Called S13 on the home phone. I was surprised that wife picked up; she's been using caller ID, and having my son pick up. She just said hello, and I simply said "I'm calling for S13". I likely should at least given her a greeting, but I wasn't unusually tense.
What's the best way to handle this? Why is she now answering the phone?
I finished the commute home, dreading a possible confrontation, preparing myself to avoid any arguments. I'm surprised to discover that she's cooked dinner, is home watching tv. She has moved most of her clothes out of the master bedroom into the guestroom, including her dresser. She's even move the rest of my stuff from the guestroom back in the master for me. The dresser is heavy. She told me that she'll be moving her bathroom stuff out as well, and that she can't sleep in the same bed with me; she figures I'm just doing this to make it tough on her.
I told her "you can do what ever you want, I am simply taking care of myself. Come and go as you please."
She was pretty down and grumpy, and it's not what I expected. I'm apprehensive about what's next.
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