Originally Posted By: stuck808
Too funny about how your sitch and my sitch are turning out.


Yeah - it's sooo funny at times I want to bang my head against a wall ;-p

Seriously though, you do have to laugh at it. Life is too short to wallow in misery and focus on what was lost. Just look at we we both still have. Beautiful kids that we will always love and cherish.

I do agree with you how we've evolved into more interesting people.

Sounds like you're handling your situation much better than I did with my friend. I let it move too fast but in the back of my head, I had know with all her drama and baggage, she wasn't the right person for my boys and I. Plus her kids were here in NY (she doesn't have custody) so I would never ask her to leave my kids any sooner than she would ask me to do the same.

You friend really sounds like she's got real relationship potential

I'm proud of you bro!


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13