Longtime coming...

[Awoken]

Thanks sandi, karen, puppy for commenting here. I'm overwhelmed by all the factors that might at play with my W: Alchohol, MLC, BPD, possible OM. It's only been a few weeks into this, although it feels like an eternity.

She definitely has a drinking problem, but she has always managed it very well; or am I in denial?

Clearly has BPD, but it's been reasonably controlled for the past 15 years, other than the emotional damage to our relationship. Again, I doubt I have any objectivity.

I'm starting to think it's more of a MLC, with a possible OM, or caused by a brief EA/PA.

I'd appreciate anyone's thoughts about this, I'm feeling very lost.