hi everyone, we went to a counselor tonight (i set this up, as when we were at this horrible place a few years ago, he gave me a number and i never called it - too scared. this time i wanted to show him that i could take action) all he did was talk about how i am a drag to be around, i am known as an unhappy person and that he is done and the only reason he is in counseling it to help me through this. i barely said a word and let him have at it at the end of the session, he said he is out after the holidays and that he thought the session did nothing. the counselor explained that this is a process and asked if he wanted a double session next time....i just shut up and expected him to say "no" it's not worth our time. he said "yes, that's fine" at the same time he told me, on the way home that if i had only started this process a year earlier he might have seen his way clear to using the tools to help us i am a bit confused as to why he would then want a double session and my first instinct was to tell him to forget it we then went to my sisters to pick up our son and he was in a great mood and seemed very happy any thoughts?
