Oh, we barely have any contact as it is. I speak to him once a day 4 days a week so he can tell the kids goodnight. The other three days a week I see him for 10 min before I leave for work when he arrives 'home' to watch the kids. I call the kids once or twice before bed and might speak to him for a min or two. Then I see him the next morning for 5 min while he is tying his shoes to leave for work. Other than that, all contact is gone.

Me backing off and removing myself from him would be nothing new in the current situation.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month