You asked what could be the worse she might do. To me, the worst would be for her to take every penny out of your accounts, take the kids, and leave with OM without a trace. That is why you need to protect your finances and everything else that you can.

I don't know much about bi-polar, but we had a case like yours in our family. He M a woman who had been M before and had two children. "After" they were M just a short time, then he discovered she was bi-polar. I thought it was awful that she would keep that a secret until after he M her, but I suppose she was afraid to be honest. I remember that the doctor told him that she could be driving some day and just never go back home. What a nightmare!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!