Wifey, SpyBunny, bim, Gima, SP, Antlers, Serenity, et al,
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for getting together and jointly heaving my sorry little butt - kicking and screaming -out of the hole of funk I had voluntarily burrowed and wallowed myself into these past days. As I just told Sister Serenity:
Originally Posted By: Gardener
Serenity, so many people have opened my eyes and lifted my spirits this morning. I am so grateful. I feel like I've also been given a good dose of 2x4s, only with those colorful, squiggly noodles that kids play with in pools!
The Funk Monster will be back again, I'm certain. But it's high time I stopped inviting him in, telling him to pull up a chair and make himself comfortable while spinning me his tales of woe! I will instead as the saying goes, be kicking his ass to the curb!
Enough!
Thank you, again.
(((Gardener))) We've all been in that hole; that sink hole we all fell in when the bomb was dropped, that fox hole trying to dodge incoming, that hell hole feeling sorry for ourselves and wallowing around in the muck of the day, and in the rabbit hole experiencing little tidbits of fantasy and amazement when we see the sun peaking through the clouds on occasion. What I hope all of us can come to is a different kind of hole- WHOLE.
There are a lot of very wise people on these boards, some whose sitches I have only lurked in, some whose posts I have read and had "aha" moments. We all want one thing, to come out of this WHOLE. Nothing missing, better than ever, shiny and happy.
You have shared nothing but thoughtfulness with the rest of us and I am a believer in what goes around comes around. I have no doubt that you, sir, will come out of this WHOLE.
BIM
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127