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He called finally talked to one of the kids and wanted to know if they wanted to go look at a boat with him tomorrow. "it will be fun". To which S says "what's fun about that? you looking for another house"

It seems H is going to spend 80,000 on a boat tomorrow to live on. Great that's what we were gonna do when we retired together... now he's gonna get to it anyway without me. Our dream.... can he dig any deeper into my pain threshold?

Anyway, I am not sure how we can afford another 80,000 dollar debt... but he's says it will be cheaper in the long run. Uuumm last time I checked big boats are expensive to maintain.

Crazy times... I begged him not to sign anything till I talked with my L who is out of town till Mon.

Any advice on how this will affect the settlement?


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too