As I stated previously in another post, your moods are clearly dictated by your Husbands moods or actions.
Stop!!
So what if your H and the OW have broken up. They might get back together after having a little spat. Honestly who cares????
You are the one who needs to make some changes before you can even begin to think about a relationship with your Husband.
And you can be as mad at me as you want, but take heed to my warning...
"IF your Husband were to come home now and you were still the same person, lacking forgiveness, and still with the same hang ups, he will be back out that door within a month"
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.