Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

I can't get out of my head that my BIL said he came to him and said he wanted to give it another shot. He hasn't told me that and I just want to know what has changed so much in the last two weeks to make him not want to anymore.

How do you know he's changed his mind? Until he files, he's not done.

As for what might have changed, there is the OW from the banquet...