Well yesterday, just as I thought as was holding it together pretty well - My wife called and told me she had pawned off her wedding rings. That definately cut deep. Looks like she is not wasting any time. Despite that, I am choosing to continue to keep mine on. If it comes down to D being final and legal - well that's a different story. Still working on the LRT, it feels unnatural but I suspect if I keep at it will become second nature. Doing my best to be the good soldier and push through the mine field...
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1867595#Post1867595