Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

Okay, so:

3 boundaries: 1. I'm going to ask him to call before he comes over.

So where are 2 and 3?

3 GAL activities: 1. going to a spa party on wed.
2. going to another spa party on the weekend, as
well as a craft fair.
3. gonna paint my living room

Sounds good.

3 180's: 1. Not be available for him

That didn't work very well. Sorry R2C. I can't come up with some of the answers!

No partial credit! Keep thinking...

I feel much better now, that I left the house and am doing something for me. It will be nice to have a warm cozy basement to come into. I'm excited!

I really think you need to talk to someone about anxiety and co-dependence while you have a chance this week. Especially if you can get a prescription for something filled before you get the kids back.