Can I save my marriage?

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Okay, so:

3 boundaries: 1. I'm going to ask him to call before he comes over.

3 GAL activities: 1. going to a spa party on wed.
2. going to another spa party on the weekend, as
well as a craft fair.
3. gonna paint my living room

3 180's: 1. Not be available for him


That didn't work very well. Sorry R2C. I can't come up with some of the answers!

I just went out and got paint and it felt good to get out of the house. I have to admit.

Sadgirl, you are in an awesome place. There is no co-dependency whatsoever in you. I only wish. I talked about it with my MC yesterday and he explained it to me as he is in an ex-alcoholic and that's where it stemmed from. He thinks from 1 of of 100, I'm 150 percent co-dependent. I see it now. A few of you have pointed out when I am showing the behaviors. I have to start wanting to be a better person for me whether he decides to share that with me is one thing, but I need to do it for me.

I feel much better now, that I left the house and am doing something for me. It will be nice to have a warm cozy basement to come into. I'm excited!