In shock...

[praying_in_GA]

Thanks Trent....it's good to know I didn't completely screw up by talking to her. I know she is either on the phone with him now or will be tonight telling him I asked her about it.

Should I mention anything to him?

She told me that she understands how much I want this to work and she knows how much I love him but that I can't change the way he feels...no one can. All I am asking for is positive thoughts from people, why is that so hard. She said she is not on either 'side' she wants to be there for everyone involved. She just seems so negative in relation to us trying to work this out and it depresses me even more.