In shock...

[TrentC]

I spoke with my sister. She said that he doesn't have anyone else to talk to who has any insight into how I am feeling or how I am doing and he doesn't want to talk to me about it.

Tough darts. That's crappy, passive-aggressive behavior. He doesn't have any right to drag your family or friends into this.

And I say this as someone who tried pressing my wife's friends for insight early on, until my wife busted me for doing it. She said "If you want to know what is going on with me, ask me."

I told her I didn't need anyone in my family negatively impacting the situation right now. She said she doesn't say anything negative to him. Everything they talk about he already knows.

Then why is he talking to her if he knows all of this?

I probably should have kept my mouth shut, but my heart was aching.

This isn't that bad; it's a great opportunity to set a boundary for your sister (or any other family or friends that talk to him):

"I was sharing my feelings and thoughts about what I'm going through with you because I believed you'd respect my privacy. Since you have chosen not to, I'll find someone else to talk to."

So, now I know that in order for Last Resort to work I am going to have to do it around any and everyone incase it gets back to him.

Or find new people to discuss this with.

With counselors, doctors, and religious leaders there is usually an implicit (or legal, in the case of doctors and counselors) understanding that anything you tell them is to be held in strict confidence.

And of course, we won't tell.