So he just informed me yet again he doesn't feel anything for me and he thinks it would be only fair to get a divorce because he thinks that it isnt fair for me to be with him if he feels like that towards me.
Don't believe anything that they say and half of what they do.
Respond with "I understand how you can feel that way" and that's it. Don't agree with him, don't support his conclusions.
Originally Posted By: Katie
What should I do when he comes home from work?
Be polite and upbeat; have a positive mental attitude.
If you can find a reason to go be somewhere else, do so.
If not, don't be drawn into relationship discussions. If you can't avoid it, then validate along the same lines as above; if he asks you for a decision or is pressuring you for a response, say "I'll have to think about it and get back to you." Never make a snap decision.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
