Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
I feel there is a big difference between nagging and being assertive.


I believe it is the same difference between using controlling behavior and setting healthy boundaries.

Nagging = controlling behavior
Assertive = setting boundaries that he can choose to respect

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."