I chose to look the other way as well because there were other "things" that enticed me. Well I guess that is part of the maturing process. Today, I realize that I should probably not have gotten involved back then. If we are brutally honest, I think most of us can find signs that there may have been trouble ahead. I am talking about character flaws here, not stuff like she does not cook well or he does not help around the house stuff. Well here is to hoping we all learned our lesson and will have our antennas on and our blinkers off as well (there I go again with horse racing lingo).