She has tagged you before your trip.

The other option is to go over there. Take another tagging. I am sure it will be real difficult and all that.
Ask for the papers to take with you to Florida before / after the tagging.
Go to Florida
GO Dark
Go outside and get some sun. GAL
Come back
Stay dark.

Time to take the wheels of the relationship again. You have a chance here to take control of your life and possible interactions with your wife.
Its time you walked away.