To the business side of this (I tend to focus on your self-development)...I am confused. It appears that you are giving her money a lot and then she sends you an email saying you aren't? Have you come to some sort of financial agreement on child support or is still up in the air? If you haven't come up with a number, look online for a child support calculator for your state. Most states have a pretty solid formula for how base child support is figured....find it...come up with the monthly and divide by four. That is the base check you send her every week. Then if she needs more you setup an effective line of communication. Say for the eye appointment.
Wife in email-S has a doctor's appointment. Co-pay is this much and he may need glasses.
Ayk-Co-pay is covered by the check I sent you this week and I will split the cost of the glasses with you. If you need more than that inform me so I can set it aside. I do have a date with this hot stripper bubbles tonight which might get expensive and I want to make sure son has his glasses.
Ayk-Co-pay is covered by the check I sent you this week and I will split the cost of the glasses with you. If you need more than that inform me so I can set it aside. I do have a date with this hot stripper bubbles tonight which might get expensive and I want to make sure son has his glasses.
You then definitely need to protect yourself financially. If she emptied the account and left no money to cover the house payment there is a problem...change that...BIG PROBLEM. You know what the base bills are...have you given her enough to cover half of them? Because if you have there should be at least half a house payment.
Remember there is a business side to this...and on that side there is no room for being nice. People will always try to to advantage of good intended actions.
