It was a wonderful day when I was alone and happy. It took perseverance and a lot of personal growth.
There is a healthy ballance between :
1) Family time 2) Alone time 3) Social time
Do things for YOU that make you happy. Find pleasure in being alone. 'Living a beautiful life' is a great book that gives many ideas on this.
I go to dinner alone and enjoy it. I get interactions with people. I interact with almost everyone I come in contact with. I have many new relationships and nurture each one.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712