I am with the others. Remember the point is for her to realize what mistake she has made. How is she hurting you if you are just listening. Listening is the best way to show you care for someone. Yeah it takes some of your time, but what is a few minutes in the course of a lifetime. Take it as a positive that she is calling you to destress, and not anyone else. If you look at it as a positive instead of her "cake eating", then it won't be as hard to do. BE POSITIVE!


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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