Facing my fears was a huge 180 for me.

Fearing D was NOT HEALTHY. Guess where that got got me......

Fearing W's reactions was NOT HEALTHY. Guess where that got me...... It is now OK with me for MsR2C to be angry. Her issue, not mine. I take responsibility for how I react to her when she is angry. I can set healthy boundaries and walk away. "I will not be yelled at. When you calm down, I will listen" and then walk away....


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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