I wonder the same thing! Although, in all honesty, I was the WAS from my previous marriage. But I did it differently as well, tried the counseling and hanging in there, talking, changing, and it just didn't work. XH and I do okay now, but I think we both look at each other in amazement that we managed to stay married for ten years. So sometimes I wonder if that is my Karma.

I am, however, not so sure I have ever done anything bad enough to deserve this, so it must not be about me.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..