Move over... I 'm moving back......

[sandycay]

No way Kerry. I am not bitter. I have learned the meaning of true love thru all of this and if I am capable of it so are other people.

I don't like angry bitter divorced people. I am not one, nor will I ever be one. I am by nature positive and happy.

The question of whether or not I would take him back is not answerable at this point because unless he showed personal growth by attending counseling before he came home it wouldn't happen. I am moving forward with a life without him and if he wakes up in time so be it, if not I will spend the rest of my days happy. I will find love again. Only with true change would I be happy with him. At this point, I see that as a fanstasy or a pipe dream if you will. So, I will not and do not bet on any reconcillation at all. I will be contacting an attorney in the next few days.