Originally Posted By: are you kidding
like you all said, she saw me as a controling, needy, fruitcake, not there for her emotionally ever, moved from my mom's house to her house, over sexed, self centered, impulsive, mean, unforgiving, good guy.

wife wants to empower herself ok empower herself against what, that chick was spoiled rotten.


Slow down.....

Ok now out of all that up there ^ it's up to you to decide what is real and what isn't and change it.

You don't have to go out of your way and have a counselor suggest or for that matter actually break a patient's confidentiality to figure this sh*t out.

YOU decide AYK.....YOU change for YOU. period.


Don't stand still.