Can I save my marriage?

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I try so hard to avoid contact with him. But when he comes over for swimsuits. I'm on the couch watching t.v and he strolls in and sits down on the chair, what am I to do? I think he still craves that contact with me. In a way he still needs that "wife" interaction with me. That's why I am soooooooo confused right now. Its been 3 days of crying now. My face looks like a watermelon. My heart is so shriveled up it probably looks like a raisin.

Why you ask? Because like I said earlier. We have gotten to this point where he contacts me daily for no reason, he contacts me to tell me something funny S3 said, which was obsolete 5 weeks ago, he hugs me constantly, he conversates with me about everything other than the kids whenever he can, he stays over if its more convenient in the situation, we get along better now than ever, we are constantly making each other laugh, and we've had discussion about future things, he mentioned putting S3's xmas present in OUR basement! So why isn't he coming home? I know none of you know this answer. Has anybody ever saw this type of situation before? Is this odd? Or is it normal?

Trent, I know I screwed up on Sat. But could you please tell me why you feel I am not really DB'ing? I feel like I am, but if not I could really use your thoughts so I can get started! Thank you so much.