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Lostforwords #1871316 11/10/09 06:24 PM
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yeah i took it literally, i'm back and forth on her cnslr too, but she quit going to her cnslr, that's also why left her cnslr a message to call me.

i'm not after info about wife, i'm after info on me.

it's tough to find balance with add. there is no half way, never been that way.

full tilt all the time, esp when i get locked on to something.

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You're going to ask her cnslr what she said about you?

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good luck.



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also sales related, but the first one to speak loses...

And also if I say it they doubt it, they say it, it's true.

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jack you think i should cancel?

new psychiatrist is who recommended it and when this all started wife signed a release and so did i.

my gut goes back and forth.

the longer this goes, the more i realize i wasn't perfect, but i'm getting persecuted for a guy i was 10 plus yrs ago, not a guy i've been the last 9 yrs.

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didn't want to go to find out stuff on wife, but on me so i can keep getting better.

finding out things from others that wife never even told me, but felt about me.

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Kid,

You know what? I don't know.

But I do know that I WOULDN'T trust a cnslr who betrayed doctor patient confidentiality.

You say you're not going to ask about her, but it seems like you're going to ask the cnslr what she said about you...ummmm...in my book, you're asking about her.

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the longer this goes, the more i realize i wasn't perfect, but i'm getting persecuted for a guy i was 10 plus yrs ago, not a guy i've been the last 9 yrs.


Yes you are for that old guy, but that doesn't mean you can say I was a shmuck 9 years ago the guy I see in the mirror today is better than that...still wok on that guy you see in the mirror today.



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Any reputable counselor isn't going to tell you a thing about what your wife said. It's considered confidential.


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fisherman #1871369 11/10/09 07:00 PM
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ok i'm canceling or putting on hold until later.

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canceled, left her voicemail, if you feel like calling me and telling me anything that you think she felt i needed to work on that'd be great.

i'm seeing blah,blah,blah, he suggested i call you.

hopefully wife starts seeing you again, have a great day.

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Originally Posted By: are you kidding
i'm seeing blah,blah,blah, he suggested i call you.


So your current counselor suggested you call your wife's old counselor for personal info. regarding your wife??

This doesn't sound right.


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