Easy to articulate...harder to do. Notwithstanding, it's all true what Smiley is saying here.
Maybe not that hard to do. The indulgence/wallowing is out though. I'm ashamed to say - but must admit - that though my grief and loss are very real, I confess to pity-partying, poor me'ing and playing victim lately. A lot. I will make a concerted effort to reverse that. I may not be DBing divorce-wise anymore, but it's time to restart the old PMA and get out of the house and do some 180s. Thank you.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac