Someone once told me that you can except to apply 1 month of DBing for every year that you have been in the relationship or marraige. I have been married 9 yrs, so I fully except to be hard at work DBing for at least 9 months to a year.

Motherof3 stated this in one of her threads, I'm just wondering, is there any truth to this? Because then I'm doomed. I've only been married 2 1/2 years. And I'm in week 7 now. Which means I only have 2-3 weeks left.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14