Puppy,

I know I haven't given a good narrative; there's so much here.
one week after the bomb, I went to see a lawyer. MC advises not the pull the cash out yet, but I'm getting nervous. There's not la lot of money at this point. We started a renovation of the house last February, at her urging. That's the last time I pushed her if everything was ok in the M.


Last thursday I let her corner me into some R talk. She kept saying that I had shocked her with my recent behavior and she was waiting for a couple of weeks to pass until I returned to normal. I finally told her that I had seen a lawyer. She responded very cool, said she was hurt that we didn't go together. I told her that everything she was doing was alone, and she never sought to work on the M together and she granted me that point. She climbed in my lamp and gave ma passionate kiss (wierd!). Then went to bed. Of course, she was drunk.

Friday, she found out I got the name of the lawyer from her friend without telling why I needed it. She is furious. She claimed it just came up in conversation, but I'm sure she was planning on calling the lawyer herself. which I now gather that I've prevented. Not my plan, but I guess it works to my advantage. Neighbor is good friends with our kids, so I'm unhappy that she has been drawn into this.

This morning after I told my wife I was moving back in the master bedroom, she left for work very early. I took the kids to school and continued moving ask much stuff as I could. She mysteriously showed up back at the house while she was supposed to be at work wanting to know what prompted me to move back in the master bed room. I just told her that's where I wanted to be, and I didn't care what she did.

However, What was she doing away from work? She didn't schedule her next individual meeting with MC until after thanksgiving because "work was much too busy through the thanksgiving break".
I'm assuming she is meeting with a lawyer preparing to file on me.

What is the worse I should expect? How do I prepare?

Last edited by Awoken; 11/10/09 06:46 PM.
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