Well I need a huge 2x4, because I've heard it now a few times and i can't seem to quite get it. You all say I need to stop reacting the same way so I can get different results, but I don't know what I'm doing wrong around him? I know I react like crazy on here, but that's private. How am I reacting around HIM that isn't working??? Thanks everybody

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14