SP,
Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
the indulgence of a grief the blunder of a lifetime.
Very good, SP. And in this case indulgence=wallow. I confess to falling, letting myself fall, making myself fall into that far too often, lately.

Originally Posted By: SmileysPerson
If you keep re-living the past, then it really isn't the past, is it?
Holy cr@p, did that one hit home! Thank you. You're great. Plural, too. You guys are all great.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac