hey Kerry, i have no clue if she is troubled, jealous or just plain indifferent. at the end of the day it does not really matter....i did not ask, i did not look for signs...i guess i am indifferent. oddly enough i get alot of thank yous as well. not sure if it is guilt or them realizing that we were not that bad. what is the old adage, you don't know what you have till it's gone......