Obviously you know your W and situation best, but are there other ways you can show your love and give her affirmation she needs besides saying the words "I love you"? Or maybe the question is, how does she respond when you do so.
She says "I know". It's become a little dance; sometimes she says "thank you", and one time she actually said "I love you" back. It doesn't seem to be making things worse, so I'm going to keep doing it.
I think I answered this earlier, but she is definitely a person who needs words of affirmation; I've known this throughout my marriage, and it's something I've had to learn to do for her. Until recently, I was wrapped up in my own fog and not telling her how I feel. So that is one of my 180's.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
