I want to ask one of them what they are talking about. I don't want to be angry or confrontational. I asked my sister to please stop talking to him when I found out she had talked to him for a while the weekend he left. Obviously she has not stopped, she has actually talked to him more since then. She spoke with him the night I asked her not to talk to him about this anymore. She spoke with him for almost an hour the night after the concert we took the kids to.
Like I said -- unless you suspect an affair between the two (and can get proof), it's best to leave that alone.
Originally Posted By: praying_in_GA
I feel like it is over now. I will never get him back now. It is over. He knows everything I have said. I can't remember things I have said or did. I can't think of the things she might have told him. I feel so hopeless now. So betrayed. My marriage is probably over because of my sister.
He has filed for D yet?
If not, then it's not over.
If so, then it's still not over -- divorces take time.
Either way, your sister gets cut out of the loop as of five minutes ago. For whatever reason she is not your ally in this, she needs to be kept out of it.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
