Originally Posted By: Gardener
And since you are still in the DBing phase, maybe you should refrain from saying "I love you," like DBing suggests.

Obviously you know your W and situation best, but are there other ways you can show your love and give her affirmation she needs besides saying the words "I love you"? Or maybe the question is, how does she respond when you do so. You said just said she doesn't say it back. Everything is about taking steps that bring you closer to your goal, so if it does, and she appears open and appreciative of it even so, then it sounds like your case would be ok to use those fated words. On the other hand, if it is causing her to draw back, then maybe you should considering holding back and finding other ways to show your love for a while longer. Just a thought...


Me 27; H 28; S 2
Togeth 9; M 4
Sep 11/14/08
EA OW1 Sep 08
EA OW2 Mar 09
EA OW3 Jun 10

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