I want to ask one of them what they are talking about. I don't want to be angry or confrontational. I asked my sister to please stop talking to him when I found out she had talked to him for a while the weekend he left. Obviously she has not stopped, she has actually talked to him more since then. She spoke with him the night I asked her not to talk to him about this anymore. She spoke with him for almost an hour the night after the concert we took the kids to.

I feel like it is over now. I will never get him back now. It is over. He knows everything I have said. I can't remember things I have said or did. I can't think of the things she might have told him. I feel so hopeless now. So betrayed. My marriage is probably over because of my sister.

So now I have to do the Last Resort around her too, right? If not, she is going to go back and tell him how I was acting.

Last edited by praying_in_GA; 11/10/09 05:30 PM.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month