Ok, so what do I do? Just not find out what they are discussing? I told her I was reading a book and that I was going to try somethings to work on myself and see if he will come back. Now he knows I am following a program of sorts.
Then stop talking to your family about it. Period. Find a counselor or talk to your pastor at church; someone who will keep your confidence.
Also, keep in mind that there may be an EA or PA in the mix...
Originally Posted By: praying_in_GA
I just want to cry...for hours and hours....Why would she do this?
Doesn't matter.
She didn't deserve to know anything about the situation and now that you know she's not keeping your confidence, there is even less of a reason to talk to her.
If she asks, tell her that you are going through a lot right now and don't feel comfortable talking about it. That's the only answer she gets until you D or reconcile.
Last edited by TrentC; 11/10/0905:19 PM.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
