Ok, so what do I do? Just not find out what they are discussing? I told her I was reading a book and that I was going to try somethings to work on myself and see if he will come back. Now he knows I am following a program of sorts.

I just want to cry...for hours and hours....Why would she do this?

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month