Originally Posted By: Katie
I haven't responded to any of them for quite a long time actually. I use to ask him why did he have to put those lyrics up there?? Then he would get mad and ask because I wanted too or because that is how I feel right now.


Yep, so...

Originally Posted By: Katie
So I stopped asking about anything on his facebook page and anything about his texting etc...


...is a good way to respond to it.

Originally Posted By: Katie
He did say to me the other day, I figured you would look at my phone so you could see who was on there. I said no because I didn't care who was on there and because I am not doing that anymore. He just replied ok.


Unless you have serious suspicions of an EA or PA, you're better off not doing that. He suspects you're doing it anyway, which means he'll try to make sure there is no evidence to find.

Originally Posted By: Katie
He also complained yesterday that he didnt see me all weekend??I am confused.


Reply "I can see how that frustrates you, but I was busy" and leave it at that.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."