We are supposed to get them on our birthdays(which I would do anyway) then on their birthdays we are supposed to rotate but honestly I think he would try to share the day with me if possible. I am doing that with him on D10's this Sunday. We split the weekend for D9. The boys didn't want to go with him and they had to work everything around S17's work schedule.
I hate all this splitting them up the most.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory