Thanks! I actually feel good. I would like my H back, but I realize it's a want, not a need. I will be okay without him. I am okay without him.
This is detachment from Sad Girl. This is healthy. The focus is on herself, notice how she talks about herself (I) not him. She doesn't need him, he doesn't complete her, he is not responsible for her happiness or future. The outcome doesn't matter, she will handle it anyway it goes. This is a woman comfortable being herself.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.